Hello timekillingkid, that's a really interesting ARTICLE you've written. I can recognize a lot of things which also happened to me. Not all, but a lot. But on one point I disagree with you. I would say, if metrosexual Backham came to a pub in my village, none of the gays would offer him some special activities. *g* Just a metrosexual appearance can not be the only explanation for this phenomenon. I think, every gay would instinctually feel that Backham don't want a man . And a lot of the "new" meterosexual looking men are more macho than the men in my father's or grandfather's generation. So it must be something else, which tell a gay man that someone could be the right person for an offer. *g*
Recently I follow another trace. I think, gay men often are searching for sensitive persons as a potential lover, who have something female in their thinking. (!Not in their behavior!) Which, as also your blowjob story shows, stands from time to time in stark contrast to some really direct and not very romantic gay sex practices. ...mmhh ... Are gays still hetero machos, who are just searching for a girl with a six-pack and a penis? ... mmhh ... (To be continued.)